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FTW

FTW

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purevi1 said:
dont hold you breath, looks like hes been lost to the dark side..... Its on him to get better. Like I said all we can do is help show him the way its up to him if he wants to take the advice but doesnt look like he wants it
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Well he wasnt on myspace when i checked today. I am hoping he may have found the help he needed but on the same coin I am also worried about the kid.
We have all done the best we can do and the ball is in his court now.
 
Bigkarch

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Phreezer said:
I'm sure I'll sound like a dick here (big suprise coming from me)... but FE isn't going to stop or change until he's ready... You can try to make him do what's right, you can try and coddle him along and hope he does what's right... but truth is.. He isn't going to stop.. He'll only hide what he's doing better..

My old man was/is a pill poping drunk. The town drunk in fact. I come from a small midwest town (Less than 1,000 people) and everyone in town knew my pops was the town drunk. In just the last ten years he's had 5 DUI's. He's been arrested 3 times for domestic battery and assault, agg assault, criminal threat and violation of restraining anti-stocking laws. (Three different women three different restraining orders). He doesn't work. Mooches off my 80 year old grandmother... I watched this guy give up a wife and three children (myself included) for booze and whatever pills he could swindle a doctor out of. He's lost about 50 jobs from drinking too much. He's been to rehab 5 times. Been to jail about 30 times.. and he doesn't give a fuck. He'd rather sleep in a tool shed and have his pills and booze than live in a house and be sobber.

This man picked booze and pills over his own kids.

We haven't spoken in years but last time we did talk (Keep in mind I'm about 30 yrs old) I asked why he does this stuff. ANd he looked me square in the face and said it was all our fault. That we were the ones with the problem and not him. He was just having a good time... and that if we hadn't rode him things would have been fine. He blames my mom for all the black eyes he gave her.. He blames all his girl friends for all of thiers.. At this point I just walked and away and never went back... And this happened when I was in my middle twenties... this was after a lifetime of growing up broke ass pour and having my ass kicked over and over as a kid for sometimes something as simple as the tv being too loud.. I could write a novel on what my life was like.. but nobody would really be that interested.. lol

anyway, My point is this... FE1 can't be talked into anything.. can't be shown what's right.. He's going to do what FE1 wants to do.. and come hell or high water no one will change that. I know, I speak from experience. I speak from being on the other side of an addicts drug and alcohal abuse.

This is something I bet a lot of you didn't know about your ol pal phreezer..
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you speak from the outside phreezer..Ill speak from the inside....being an alcoholic and played this game myself...addicts are the best liers....either you want sobriety or not.....said it before grab your balls and stop..easy for me to say...been there dont that..had others tell me the same thing....just stop.......but what they dont know is its a psychological problem too....that drug and the euphoria is hard to stop...you want that euphoria....Ive been through a lot in my time...been in the army and the first desert storm.....but the hardest was stopping alcohol......
 
FTW

FTW

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d-red said:
am i the only one who`s been left out of the myspace loop??? i`m hurt:eek:
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Well Red in away i wish i never had a myspace account because they are so simple to hack. You can meet alot of cool people and find some good and funny info but its more trouble than its worth as far as security goes.


J2m if you do hang out with FE1 today let us know if he is doing ok please.
 
juiced2damax

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FTW said:
Well Red in away i wish i never had a myspace account because they are so simple to hack. You can meet alot of cool people and find some good and funny info but its more trouble than its worth as far as security goes.


J2m if you do hang out with FE1 today let us know if he is doing ok please.
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Man, I wish he would call or text me or something..He has not tried to contact me yet today..I will definately let you guys know how he is if gets at me.

And yeah D-Red, myspace is a cite that is nothing but trouble but very useful in staying in contact with peeps. I don't typically mix my myspace world in with my bbing board world bc too much personal info could be gathered from that site.
 
d-red

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juiced2damax said:
And yeah D-Red, myspace is a cite that is nothing but trouble but very useful in staying in contact with peeps. I don't typically mix my myspace world in with my bbing board world bc too much personal info could be gathered from that site.
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i have a myspace,and ALL my personel info. is on there. sooo i can see why you wouldn`t want to mix the two.
 
FTW

FTW

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juiced2damax said:
Hey FTW, He's on myspace now, tell him to contact me.
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Left a message but i think its the shit stain in your pink speedo's that made him stand you up.;)

Well we all done our best and it wasnt good enough for Mr. self-centered so i say just hang back till he wants our help.
 
juiced2damax

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Fight sounds pretty good, doing much better...I think a change of scenery would help this brotha out, so hopefully he'll pay me a visit this weekend...He said as long as I can get a few gay fellas over my apt for a party then he'll come up.:eek: :D
 
swede74

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juiced2damax said:
Fight sounds pretty good, doing much better...I think a change of scenery would help this brotha out, so hopefully he'll pay me a visit this weekend...He said as long as I can get a few gay fellas over my apt for a party then he'll come up.:eek: :D
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Just kick out a dozen that you already have at your place...that will leave just a few, right?
 
FTW

FTW

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juiced2damax said:
Fight sounds pretty good, doing much better...I think a change of scenery would help this brotha out, so hopefully he'll pay me a visit this weekend...He said as long as I can get a few gay fellas over my apt for a party then he'll come up.:eek: :D
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There is alot of mojo in those pink speedo.;)
 
FTW

FTW

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On the serious side, FE1 i am proud of ya brother and glad that you are thinking with your head screwed on straight.
If you ever need to bullshit i am there for ya buddy.
 
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fighteveryone

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word. i appreciate it Juiced for listening to my bullshit and giving me hope. i'm gonna head up to your neck of the woods this weekend. even if its for the day whatever. as long as we hit up a Sonic i'll be happy. haha. you might find yourself a new neighbor very soon. i've been really weighing on what i'd miss about NY and i've come to the conclusion that i don't think i'd miss anything... especially about the shithole on Long Island where im at now. this place has nothing to offer me anymore, not that it ever did. i need to start over. i need to get out of this job, away from my family, and away from my "past" if you catch my drift.

on a good note, i havent touched any drugs (aside from alcohol) since thursday night... well technically friday morning. lol. so thats progress. that might be because i'm beyond broke though.
 
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Baldspot

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A fresh start in a new area is definitely a step in the right direction, but the drive to stay clean must still come from within.

One day at a time.
 
Phreezer

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There is no geographic solution to a spiritual problem... Most of the time people find a new crowd that was just like their old one... But there are occasionaly exceptions to that rule.. FE1 I certainly wish you well, and I hope that you do recover. You just have to decide what you want and then do it..
 
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