PMS!!!! Out of control!

[ian smith]

I didn't. I just call her my wife. That's why it's in quotes. Long story.....

pheeeew.......

 

[Massive690]

They are my main concern. Maybe we arent meant to be together. We've been together for 13 1/2 years, married for 10, filed for divorce almost 3 years ago, worked things out...had to actually unfile, lol. Before we filed, I had cheated a bunch of times, going to strip clubs and massage parlors....my closest friend was right there with me, then I move in with him, he decides to sleep with my wife, says he wants to raise my kids...tells her all the shit I did before and adds a bunch of stuff.....says he didnt ever do anything, then she figures out he was lying about himself being an angel....he also worked for me, I tell him to split before I kill him, he walks out of my shop and up the hill and hangs himself on the spot.

Needless to say, we have been through a lot. Not sure if it is going to work.

fuck man i had no idea. i wish you both the best. sometimes shit like this can bring people closer together, other times it can make it impossible

 

[billet5]

fuck man i had no idea. i wish you both the best. sometimes shit like this can bring people closer together, other times it can make it impossible

Thats what everyone says, it has brought us closer together but is far from gone, so it remains to be seen if it will be impossible or not.

 

[spanky]

Thats what everyone says, it has brought us closer together but is far from gone, so it remains to be seen if it will be impossible or not.

So no make-up sex I guess. LOL I/we've never had make-up sex, does it really exist? It usually takes a few weeks of cooling off before things are back to normal. The bad part is when i'm looking back on what caused the blow-up to begin with, I can't remember.

 

[billet5]

So no make-up sex I guess. LOL I/we've never had make-up sex, does it really exist? It usually takes a few weeks of cooling off before things are back to normal. The bad part is when i'm looking back on what caused the blow-up to begin with, I can't remember.

That is so true. Ive never had makeup sex either, when my wife is disconnected emotionally, no sex for me. I usually dont want it at that point anyway.........it takes a bit for me to get the resentment out of my system as well.

 

[Massive690]

That is so true. Ive never had makeup sex either, when my wife is disconnected emotionally, no sex for me. I usually dont want it at that point anyway.........it takes a bit for me to get the resentment out of my system as well.

i hear ya. im still working on this with my ex. she was confessing undying love to me every day for a month recently. sometimes i wanted her back, but i couldnt get the resentment out of my system... didnt even want to look at her. ive never had makeup sex, i usually like to be left the hell alone when im mad

 

[spanky]

That is so true. Ive never had makeup sex either, when my wife is disconnected emotionally, no sex for me. I usually dont want it at that point anyway.........it takes a bit for me to get the resentment out of my system as well.

Which is exactly why shit doesn't get fixed! Seems women just want to be mad and forget about it. Men on the other hand want to identify what was wrong and fix it. The older I get, the less I look at my wife and think, "geesh, I am so lucky to have found her...." I keep thinking when the boys are older and things settle down, we'll really like each other. As it is, i'm not sure i'd get too worked up if she just walked out. And things are going pretty damn well right now and she is still hot. LMAO

 

[billet5]

Which is exactly why shit doesn't get fixed! Seems women just want to be mad and forget about it. Men on the other hand want to identify what was wrong and fix it. The older I get, the less I look at my wife and think, "geesh, I am so lucky to have found her...." I keep thinking when the boys are older and things settle down, we'll really like each other. As it is, i'm not sure i'd get too worked up if she just walked out. And things are going pretty damn well right now and she is still hot. LMAO

Thats funny.......in a twisted kind of way. I actually am lucky, I really have a lot of respect for my wife and know it would be difficult to find someone as great as her, my problem has to do with will we be able to get through the past. It left a huge scar, thats for sure. I am being completely honest when I say that we get along like best friends, even after being together over 13 years. Shit is just so fucking complicated.

 

[juaneye]

Thats funny.......in a twisted kind of way. I actually am lucky, I really have a lot of respect for my wife and know it would be difficult to find someone as great as her, my problem has to do with will we be able to get through the past. It left a huge scar, thats for sure. I am being completely honest when I say that we get along like best friends, even after being together over 13 years. Shit is just so fucking complicated.

well are you two still "in love" or do you just love each other as friends? if the latter is the case then it seems to me you might be together now out of convenience, on the other hand if you are still "in love" then you will work it out even with the history.

p.s. the guy was not really your friend, he wanted to get in to your wife's pants and he was a head case. i think you should stop and toast the tree once in a while....fuck him, he was an asshole!

 

[s7v7n]

That is so true. Ive never had makeup sex either, when my wife is disconnected emotionally, no sex for me. I usually dont want it at that point anyway.........it takes a bit for me to get the resentment out of my system as well.

WOW! Make-up sex is amazing...I fight alot...it's my temper...if I don't get something that I want or my way...or she is being a bitch...we fight...but 5-6 hours later we are fucking like I picked her up in a bar and was showing her a whole new fantasy...


...You gotta try it buddy.

 

[s7v7n]

If you put one in front of me I will eat it. My mom gets me one every year for my bday....and a seperate one for everybody else.

Mutant...either your one big fucker...or one hella Fat Albert...LOL.


...How could you eat cheese cake like that? Ugh...Boston Cream Pie on the other hand can be en-gulfed easily

 

[Phreezer]

so what happened billet? You work through this or what?

 

[billet5]

so what happened billet? You work through this or what?

Yeah, were good for now. I hope for the long term. With all the wreckage, Ive realized we can work on it one day at a time and whatever happens, we will both be o.k.. THe really nice thing about my wife is that she is a wonderful mother and a wonderful person, so all in all I know my kids will always come first for the both of us. THanks for asking Phreezer.

I also want to mention that I feel really fortunate to be part of such a great group here on MU. I was never part of Meso or the old school boards but I am very lucky to have met some really great guys through this board. Oddly enough, although I havent met you guys in person, I hold you guys in high regard. Exept for you Ian.... . Seriously, thanks to each and every one of you for being men of integrity.