PMS!!!! Out of control!

billet5

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PMS!!!! Out of control!

Seriously, about once every 3 months my wife loses it when she has PMS. We got into a normally small type of argument, turned into her thinking we should probably get a divorce. Fuckin crazy. Shit pisses me off. I havent been that angry in a long long time, said she was going to take my girls to her grandmothers for Thanksgiving 300 miles away and stay there for the weekend so I would spend the holiday without my family. It gets to the point where i think fuck it, lets get a divorce. Psycho.

Sorry guys, just pissed and had to vent.
 
spanky

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billet5 said:
Seriously, about once every 3 months my wife loses it when she has PMS. We got into a normally small type of argument, turned into her thinking we should probably get a divorce. Fuckin crazy. Shit pisses me off. I havent been that angry in a long long time, said she was going to take my girls to her grandmothers for Thanksgiving 300 miles away and stay there for the weekend so I would spend the holiday without my family. It gets to the point where i think fuck it, lets get a divorce. Psycho.

Sorry guys, just pissed and had to vent.
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Billet, that happens every 3 or 4 months around here. It's funny because we used to have real brawls on top of mutherfuckin each other. Now it's like, fuck it i'm out of here, have a nice life....

It never gets to that point but the divorce feeling seems so real every now and then.

I'm coming up on 40 and should be enjoying life. Not fighting over who did what, who cooked dinner two nights in a row, who did all of the laundry, etc, etc....
 
Grizzly

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You too?!?! Shit, it's "my wife's" pms week and shit hit the fan today. If only I could beat her without legal repercussions....
 
Massive690

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ahhhh its talks like this that really help me feel better about being single :)

sorry guys, been there. shit sucks. nothing worse than fighting with your girl. especially when shes as stubborn and crazy as my ex was
 
billet5

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we'll see if she rides this one out. Seems fairly serious, but has before as well. Oh well, if she wants a divorce, I'm down for it. The kids are really my main concern.
 
Preacher

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If the kids where your biggest concern then you would try to work it out... Unless its to the extreme, and you guys are fighting infront of them then it maybe best for the kids.
 
billet5

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Preacher said:
If the kids where your biggest concern then you would try to work it out... Unless its to the extreme, and you guys are fighting infront of them then it maybe best for the kids.
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They are my main concern. Maybe we arent meant to be together. We've been together for 13 1/2 years, married for 10, filed for divorce almost 3 years ago, worked things out...had to actually unfile, lol. Before we filed, I had cheated a bunch of times, going to strip clubs and massage parlors....my closest friend was right there with me, then I move in with him, he decides to sleep with my wife, says he wants to raise my kids...tells her all the shit I did before and adds a bunch of stuff.....says he didnt ever do anything, then she figures out he was lying about himself being an angel....he also worked for me, I tell him to split before I kill him, he walks out of my shop and up the hill and hangs himself on the spot.

Needless to say, we have been through a lot. Not sure if it is going to work.
 
juaneye

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the hoilday time is the worst potentially for stress of all forms. hopefully if it is meant to be you folks will work things out. my wife had a melt down the other day too. she says to me dramatically "I can't go on like this" i just looked her in the eye and said...."i don't have a problem with that" her jaw hit the floor and i just avoided her for a couple days. she's pissed because my doc put me on cyclobenzaprine 10 mg and oxycodone 5/325 a year ago and needless to say after i take them at night for severe back pain it kills my motivation.....no, not for sex, just get to relaxed to get much accomplished i guess. i'm going next week to get cortisone shots in the spinal column to hopefully stop taking the drugs, i really don't like the lethargic feeling they give. i'm to hyperactive naturally to take that shit anyway....cramps my style.
 
Preacher

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billet5 said:
They are my main concern. Maybe we arent meant to be together. We've been together for 13 1/2 years, married for 10, filed for divorce almost 3 years ago, worked things out...had to actually unfile, lol. Before we filed, I had cheated a bunch of times, going to strip clubs and massage parlors....my closest friend was right there with me, then I move in with him, he decides to sleep with my wife, says he wants to raise my kids...tells her all the shit I did before and adds a bunch of stuff.....says he didnt ever do anything, then she figures out he was lying about himself being an angel....he also worked for me, I tell him to split before I kill him, he walks out of my shop and up the hill and hangs himself on the spot.

Needless to say, we have been through a lot. Not sure if it is going to work.
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jeesus crist man. I don't know what to say, I just hope everything works out for you. On whatever you decided.
 
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I ended up having to move out of town for this reason. My ex and I lived togather for quite a while. Eventually she started having crazy PMS every month...to the point where I would either try not to be home or go in whatever room she wasnt in...even if it meant that I had to sit in the bathroom for hours. I had a feeling it was because of the birth control she was on. It got so bad she told me I had to move out, but that she still wanted to be with me?!? I packed up and left. Two days later I told her I couldnt be with her and let her know how much of a bitch she was. I guess she wasnt ready to break up because she stalked me for a year...who would have thought from the way she treated me. She eventually got off the birth control and realized that it was the problem. I moved 100 miles away to finally put an end to it.

I vented in your thread.:D
 
billet5

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Mutant said:
I ended up having to move out of town for this reason. My ex and I lived togather for quite a while. Eventually she started having crazy PMS every month...to the point where I would either try not to be home or go in whatever room she wasnt in...even if it meant that I had to sit in the bathroom for hours. I had a feeling it was because of the birth control she was on. It got so bad she told me I had to move out, but that she still wanted to be with me?!? I packed up and left. Two days later I told her I couldnt be with her and let her know how much of a bitch she was. I guess she wasnt ready to break up because she stalked me for a year...who would have thought from the way she treated me. She eventually got off the birth control and realized that it was the problem. I moved 100 miles away to finally put an end to it.

I vented in your thread.:D
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That's what I'm here for ;)
 
billet5

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juaneye said:
yeah, we thought if we put our problems on your lap maybe it would take your mind off of your issue's for a minute! :D
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The funny thing is, that usually is how it works. At least for me. I help a lot of younger guys get sober and just when i hitting a rough spot, one of them will call and it gets me out of my head. At least temporarily.
 
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billet5 said:
The funny thing is, that usually is how it works. At least for me. I help a lot of younger guys get sober and just when i hitting a rough spot, one of them will call and it gets me out of my head. At least temporarily.
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Does this mean I can call you when I feel the urge to eat a whole cheesecake? I should probably stop doing that.
 
FTW

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Grizzly said:
You too?!?! Shit, it's "my wife's" pms week and shit hit the fan today. If only I could beat her without legal repercussions....
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That law should apply double to the ex's. I should have my ass beat on for being dumb enough to marry a whore from hell once.
 
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