Can it truly be love if...

[KingGuss]

Can it truly be love if...

If you still lust over many different women? I love my Girl but I still think about other women a lot.

I don't cheat or come close for that matter but I would like to. I am unsure if this is a problem with me, my character, or is this normal?

I was single for a long time before getting into this relationship so maybe I still have that single guy mindset.

Its almost been two years though so I dunno?

 

[Vicious Cycle]

Of coarse it's normal - you're a guy.

The question is WOULD you cheat on her?

 

[-MU-]

Love and Lust are to completely different perspectives...One can go hand and hand with the over, but they are both not the same.

 

[KingGuss]

Of coarse it's normal - you're a guy.

The question is WOULD you cheat on her?

No I'm pretty sure that I wouldnt. Ive had multiple opportunities with what I consider to be very attractive women but have not acted. I havent even taken a number.

I guess it helps to know that this is somewhat normal I just would prefer it if I had less of a drive for other women and more of a drive for my own.

 

[elitet34]

Lmao..man, I think about this ALL the time.

I have never cheated on my GF, and I've been with her for 3 years...I honestly wouldn't be able to look her in the eyes if I did. I've come very close to, but I can't do it. Therefore, I really think it must be a normal thing for us 'guys' to fantasize about fucking these other women...lol....and wanting to.

 

[-MU-]

It's normal for most woman as well...It's human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it...Acting on it is a different story.

 

[KingGuss]

MU- I hear ya bro. Ive never been a cheater, even in my rec abuse days but I just thought that when I did settle down that my thoughts would be more centered around her.

It would help me to understand this if she were unattractive or frigid. I could get that but she isn't either of those things. I may be putting too much pressure on myself to be something or someone I am not. I guess I just have a wondering eye but at least my dick stays in my pants.

 

[wallyd]

not sure of your age kingguss but i think that has alot to do with it too. when i was younger i was alot different about relationships than i am now. plus my wife is a friend too, a HOT friend in a non gay way!!

 

[elitet34]

MU- I hear ya bro. Ive never been a cheater, even in my rec abuse days but I just thought that when I did settle down that my thoughts would be more centered around her.

It would help me to understand this if she were unattractive or frigid. I could get that but she isn't either of those things. I may be putting too much pressure on myself to be something or someone I am not. I guess I just have a wondering eye but at least my dick stays in my pants.

I would have to say this is it...too much pressure on yourself. And the dick staying in pants part, thats a huge plus for you. You should be proud !

 

[elitet34]

not sure of your age kingguss but i think that has alot to do with it too. when i was younger i was alot different about relationships than i am now. plus my wife is a friend too, a HOT friend in a non gay way!!

Whats wrong with a hot friend in a gay way ? I have some of them ! ( cough...-mu-...cough ! )

 

[KingGuss]

not sure of your age kingguss but i think that has alot to do with it too. when i was younger i was alot different about relationships than i am now. plus my wife is a friend too, a HOT friend in a non gay way!!

I recently turned 30. This is also my best attempt at a serious, long term relationship.

 

[KingGuss]

not sure of your age kingguss but i think that has alot to do with it too. when i was younger i was alot different about relationships than i am now. plus my wife is a friend too, a HOT friend in a non gay way!!

I recently turned 30. This is also my best attempt at a serious, long term relationship.[/QUOTE]

I would have to say this is it...too much pressure on yourself. And the dick staying in pants part, thats a huge plus for you. You should be proud !

I tend to be critical of myself more and more as I age. Maybe its a subconscious way of attempting to right some of the wrongs of my past.

I love the internet. I honestly wouldn't have anyone in the real world I would ask these types of things.

 

[elitet34]

I recently turned 30. This is also my best attempt at a serious, long term relationship.

I tend to be critical of myself more and more as I age. Maybe its a subconscious way of attempting to right some of the wrongs of my past.

I love the internet. I honestly wouldn't have anyone in the real world I would ask these types of things.

[/QUOTE]

Man, tell me about it. I have VERY few friends as it is, and MAYBE 1 of them I would talk to about my issues.

 

[Vicious Cycle]

Lmao..man, I think about this ALL the time.

I have never cheated on my GF, and I've been with her for 3 years...I honestly wouldn't be able to look her in the eyes if I did. I've come very close to, but I can't do it. Therefore, I really think it must be a normal thing for us 'guys' to fantasize about fucking these other women...lol....and wanting to.

That's just because nobody else would sleep with your ugly ass!

 

[KingGuss]

That's just because nobody else would sleep with your ugly ass!

LOL thats not true. Mfreaky is somebody!

 

[elitet34]

That's just because nobody else would sleep with your ugly ass!

Never, ever, ever will I send you nudes again...EVER !!

Guss...Freaky is lousy in bed

 

[billet5]

If you didnt lust after women, then you would be gay. IMO anyway. Although, I do notice that the more I am into someone, the less I look, but I still look. And love to look also, btw.

 

[KingGuss]

Never, ever, ever will I send you nudes again...EVER !!

Guss...Freaky is lousy in bed

Tell me about it .

 

[KingGuss]

If you didnt lust after women, then you would be gay. IMO anyway. Although, I do notice that the more I am into someone, the less I look, but I still look. And love to look also, btw.

Yeah I just may be a bit crazy. She is smokin hot and a great girl but I find myself fantasizing about random tramps I see here and there. I really don't understand why but I guess it isn't a huge deal. Just something I wanted some insight about.

 

[juaneye]

of course it's natural to want to spread your seed, survival of the species instinct and all that jazz. my wife has a gorgeous face and i never get tired of looking at her, but i see a dozen or more women a day i'd like to bend over the pickle barrel and drill. the longer you're married the more tempting it is too, but so far i've been a good boy no matter how much i've wanted to stray. now look if she has to turn out the lights and close her eyes and pretend i'm Jason Bay to bang me i could give two shits as long as she still coughs up her big brown ass to me a couple times a week!!!

p.s. especially since i've discovered test!!!!!!!!