well its finally over (thick told me before)

[steve miller]

well its finally over (thick told me before)

So after a little over a year together my girl and I are splitting up. I am moving out tomorrow to live with a buddy until i find a house to buy. I was ok with it, except i want to see her dog a couple times a week (I have grown so attached to Abby i cant imagine life without her).

I really care for Jen, but i was a terrible boyfriend to her. It sucks i wish i could do a lot of it over and have been better to her but its over and we are both better off with other people. Its weird thinking about cutting anyone out of your life. She says she cant be friends with me, but I cant help but want to be there for her because she has no family or support system (and I genuinely care for her as a person). She is a really sweet caring person when she wants to be, she has just had an unbelievably hard life and I pray to God every night she finds someone who can make her happy and forget what has happened to her and give her a great new life, she deserves it.

I also offered to help her pay her bills until she is on her feet (also as part of being able to see Abby I offered this).
I dont know i guess im getting a bit sentimental but its weird knowing this is the last night i will spend in this house and maybe the last time I see Jen or Abby. Maybe Im being over dramatic but thats me I guess.

 

[ian smith]

Sorry to hear youre having a tough time with this, for what its worth,, youll start feeling better as time passes. take care


Dont forget, you deserve to have a good life to.

 

[juiced2damax]

TIME TIME TIME TIME is what will make things better...Sorry to hear, breakups really suck ass but you'll be ok!

 

[FTW]

Dude you cant win. If your single and fucking like a mad rabbit you want a serious relationship. If in a serious relationship you will want some strange pussy after awhile and envy the single guy.

The only solution is find a hot ass puta that is bi and flexible. I only wish I was in that position. Fuck you 11!

 

[Eleven11]

Dude you cant win. If your single and fucking like a mad rabbit you want a serious relationship. If in a serious relationship you will want some strange pussy after awhile and envy the single guy.

The only solution is find a hot ass puta that is bi and flexible. I only wish I was in that position. Fuck you 11!

HEY, don't make me fly back there

Steve hang in there bud, things change for a reason and if you do find someone new remember what you said in this thread and try and make it better......................11

 

[Massive690]

So after a little over a year together my girl and I are splitting up. I am moving out tomorrow to live with a buddy until i find a house to buy. I was ok with it, except i want to see her dog a couple times a week (I have grown so attached to Abby i cant imagine life without her).

I really care for Jen, but i was a terrible boyfriend to her. It sucks i wish i could do a lot of it over and have been better to her but its over and we are both better off with other people. Its weird thinking about cutting anyone out of your life. She says she cant be friends with me, but I cant help but want to be there for her because she has no family or support system (and I genuinely care for her as a person). She is a really sweet caring person when she wants to be, she has just had an unbelievably hard life and I pray to God every night she finds someone who can make her happy and forget what has happened to her and give her a great new life, she deserves it.

I also offered to help her pay her bills until she is on her feet (also as part of being able to see Abby I offered this).
I dont know i guess im getting a bit sentimental but its weird knowing this is the last night i will spend in this house and maybe the last time I see Jen or Abby. Maybe Im being over dramatic but thats me I guess.

shit i hear ya bro. my girl just moved out last week. been together 2 years and have a child together. it sucks. the worst part is dreaming about her every night and then waking up and realizing that she's gone... i hate mornings lol

hang in there bud

 

[THL]

Yeah, hang in there steve. As others have said, you'll start feeling better over time. Hopefully it just doesn't take too much time. j/k

And remember, women are strange, emotional creatures. In a few weeks (maybe months) she will probably be much more open to staying friends with you so you can still see her dog.

 

[steve miller]

Thanks guys I appreciate it. Its hard but I really am ok with the break up. Im just not ok with how i treated her, and I want to help her out in the future. I told her, and she knows from seeing how I am with my friends, that I am a really good friend and will do anything for those I love. However, I am a HORRIBLE boyfriend. She is still a little hesitant on that because she says if i could not count on you as my BF how can I as a friend.

Also this morning she went through my phone and my texts (i knew i needed to erase them) and saw a couple pics girls sent me that are interested in me, plus she saw a text from the 19 year old I am talking with...ughhh

 

[billet5]

Thanks guys I appreciate it. Its hard but I really am ok with the break up. Im just not ok with how i treated her, and I want to help her out in the future. I told her, and she knows from seeing how I am with my friends, that I am a really good friend and will do anything for those I love. However, I am a HORRIBLE boyfriend. She is still a little hesitant on that because she says if i could not count on you as my BF how can I as a friend.

Also this morning she went through my phone and my texts (i knew i needed to erase them) and saw a couple pics girls sent me that are interested in me, plus she saw a text from the 19 year old I am talking with...ughhh

SM,
That sucks. I split up with my wife 2 years ago and even though it was my decision, it still sucked badly. We filed for divorce, then we somehow managed to reconcile and had to pay to "unfile" for divorce. I hope you get to see abby, from what it sounds like, it will be really good for your girl to have abby's company. Keep your head up.

 

[thick]

yep in the long run you will both be better off. Keep focused on positives these next few weeks and you will be doing great in no time. take care

TIME TIME TIME TIME is what will make things better...Sorry to hear, breakups really suck ass but you'll be ok!

 

[thick]

damn massive sorry to see this. You guys were in a tough situation. Hope you get custody or good arrangements with your kid. I honestly think you will be happier with someone else. Give it time bud

shit i hear ya bro. my girl just moved out last week. been together 2 years and have a child together. it sucks. the worst part is dreaming about her every night and then waking up and realizing that she's gone... i hate mornings lol

hang in there bud

 

[steve miller]

SM,
That sucks. I split up with my wife 2 years ago and even though it was my decision, it still sucked badly. We filed for divorce, then we somehow managed to reconcile and had to pay to "unfile" for divorce. I hope you get to see abby, from what it sounds like, it will be really good for your girl to have abby's company. Keep your head up.

Thanks for the words everyone i appreciate it.

Billet you know what your right she does need Abby more than I do, thanks for making me realize that brother

 

[.!.]

i have been there too steve.

except my situation, i had no idea it was coming and i was NOT OK with the break up which made it even worse, to me i was perfect for her.

everyone kept telling me time heals, i called bullshit on this and was extrememly depressed, but they were right over time i got over the dumb bitch of a whore (maybe not over it huh? ) anyways

hang in there buddy. you have already taken the first step in realizing that you are both better off not being boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

[Preacher]

OK I don't want to workout anymore....... It seems everyone on this dam board is going single..... you guys realize that us talking Gay and by us I mean FTW, that we are only joking and its not a reason to break up....

Hey Steve, surround yourself with friends & family. Avoid drugs and Alcohol as it will make it worse, Time will heal as it always does.....

Good luck man.... If all does fail you could give Grizz a call I hear he feels like a women under all that hair.....

 

[Vicious Cycle]

Sorry to hear about your troubles Steve. Take out your anger on some iron!

 

[s7v7n]

Dude you cant win. If your single and fucking like a mad rabbit you want a serious relationship. If in a serious relationship you will want some strange pussy after awhile and envy the single guy.

The only solution is find a hot ass puta that is bi and flexible. I only wish I was in that position. Fuck you 11!

LOL.....a BI girl...yummy!!!

 

[steve miller]

tonight

this is the girl i will be taking out tonight...went out with her last weekend she is annoying as hell but hot and 19 so what can i say

 

[Grizzly]

She's cute! I like her better than your new ex. And I totally know how you're feeling right now. Every once in a while, I'm still wracked with guilt about how big of an assfucker I was to an ex of mine. Sweetest, nicest girl in the world, and I was nothing but an asshole.

Know what though, dude? I think there's probably a reason for that and that reason is that you guys really shouldn't have been together anyway. Hmmmm, I'm having trouble articulating this at the moment, but put it this way: When you meet a girl who makes you do all the things that your exes used to bitch at you for not doing, then that's the one you want to keep! At least, this has been my recent experience.

 

[juaneye]

this is the girl i will be taking out tonight...went out with her last weekend she is annoying as hell but hot and 19 so what can i say

good man! seeing that little tasty morsel in her b-day suit will take your mind to where it needs to be!

 

[billet5]

this is the girl i will be taking out tonight...went out with her last weekend she is annoying as hell but hot and 19 so what can i say

SM, She's a little hottie, that will keep your mind off things.