I'm trying hard to be the shepherd

[spanky]

I'm trying hard to be the shepherd

I'm going on ten years marriage and just now getting seriously tested. I started a new job about a month ago and during my introduction in the company meeting, I spot one of the last girls I dated sitting across the room. She came up after the meeting and it was only being away for a week. I've been avoiding situations where we would be alone just because conversation starts to get going in the wrong direction pretty quickly. I cant lie, i'm scared i'll slip. Hookers are one thing, fucking someone that will expect something more is different.

Anyway, I havent been around much. Got laid off, now coaching little league, started a new job but hopefully landing an even better one (should know something next week), just had my boy's first B-day party which is crazy because it seems I just posted his birth on here.

I hope everyone is doing well. Griz ban anyone lately?

 

[billet5]

Spanky, only from my own experience.........that can open a can of worms that you may not want to get into. I'm not saying that from a judging place, only from my experience. Good luck. Remember, avoiding situations in the first place is good. You can prevent a forest fire, but you cant stop one.

 

[Sweettart29]

Yeah Griz banned me from the bed because I was to rough for him!!!!

 

[wallyd]

glad to hear you landed a job and good luck on getting the better one. you already know what to do about the other situation. if you love your wife and family it's a no brainer!

 

[spanky]

Yeah Griz banned me from the bed because I was to rough for him!!!!

That's fuckin funny!



My wife and I have been having issues so the chica at work is just adding fuel to the fire. Plus she smells so damn good and has the sweetest voice ever! Still dont think i'll cross that line.

As far as jobs go, the new one is in an industry that's doing very well. I hope I land it, we'll see. Admittedly I have my hopes up. I aced the interview as well as the solder/electronics tests.

 

[Grizzly]

Yeah Griz banned me from the bed because I was to rough for him!!!!

LIAR!!!!!

Actually, I was just informed that I was too nice last night. I generally reserve the whole smashing her head into a wall, choking her while calling her a filthy fucking whore thing for girls I've had sex with more than just that evening, but, apprently, I should bust it out more often.

 

[Sweettart29]

LIAR!!!!!

Actually, I was just informed that I was too nice last night. I generally reserve the whole smashing her head into a wall, choking her while calling her a filthy fucking whore thing for girls I've had sex with more than just that evening, but, apprently, I should bust it out more often.

LMFAO OMG this absolutely made my morning!!!!

To nice???? that is fun sometimes but when I wanna get slammed u better be slammin or I am not going to be happy...Ofcourese I could always throw ya down on the bed and jump on ya but that is just not the same....

 

[Eleven11]

LIAR!!!!!

Actually, I was just informed that I was too nice last night. I generally reserve the whole smashing her head into a wall, choking her while calling her a filthy fucking whore thing for girls I've had sex with more than just that evening, but, apprently, I should bust it out more often.

LMAO Dude you only get 1 chance to make a good 1st impression ..........11

 

[Grizzly]

LMAO Dude you only get 1 chance to make a good 1st impression ..........11

Fortunately, she doesn't have a lot to compare it to. Apparently, I'm only number 5. I think the sticking my face in her crotch for 40 minutes made enough of an impression.

Although, I did have a lot to live up to since our mutual friend used to go on and on to her about how much fun I was in bed, so I hope I didn't disappoint.

 

[txjustin]

Don't do it bro. If your marriage ends let it be because you guys just couldn't work it out, not infidelity.

 

[spanky]

Well, things just have a way of working out. As much as I loved that job, I just accepted a new one after only a month. I guess i'm lucky to be where i'm at, job-wise. I could tell ol girl was pissy that I was quitting. She was saying we havent even had a chance to do lunch. Which is wrong because we hit the BBQ Hall but in a group. No way i'm going alone with her.

In just 4 months i've been laid off, got a new job, quit and accepted a better one. Talk about walking through shit and coming out smelling like a rose. Obama has this economy fixed already.

Oh, and the wife says something like, "I think my hormones are jacked up or something." LMAO I would think having zero sex drive would be a pretty good god damned good indication.

 

[Grizzly]

Does that mean the other company has an opening? I'll take it! I can drink beer at work? Fuuuuuuck! I'll take 14k/yr for that. LOL

I'm going to our national meeting tomorrow. I'll have the President's ear. Shall I tell him that I'm giving him my two weeks in favor of beer and some oversexed broad?

 

[spanky]

It's all yours, my man. Including my ex and the beer drinking. You cant even get your lunch in the fridge without having to make room by removing beer! Course I put a six of MGD in there and the assholes threw that shit out and put Shiner Black Label in it's place. The lowest paid tech there is making $20/hr.