Advice please

[Primetime]

Advice please

So I've been with a girl for about a year now, but just don't love her anymore. I still love my ex gf that I dated for a few years, and she won't be in my life while I'm still dating my current gf. (They know and hate each other) I dont know if I should break up with my girl and try to get back with my ex or just ride it out. I know I'll miss my current gf if we break up but I really want to be with my ex. I just don't know what to do.

 

[juaneye]

don't worry....i think they will both turn lezbo and fall in love with each other, and then neither one of them will have nothing to do with you and they will both hate you.

 

[s7v7n]

don't worry....i think they will both turn lezbo and fall in love with each other, and then neither one of them will have nothing to do with you and they will both hate you.

I had the same thing...I fell out of love with my old GF...she was just way to pyscho for me...after 2 years I was done...found a cuter girl anyway

 

[billet5]

Dear Confused,
I would just do what you think is right. Nobody else is going to be able to make any decision for you. You dont love the current, but you love the ex....hmmm....tough one...maybe leave the one you dont love and go back to the one you do?

 

[Grizzly]

Dear Confused,
I would just do what you think is right. Nobody else is going to be able to make any decision for you. You dont love the current, but you love the ex....hmmm....tough one...maybe leave the one you dont love and go back to the one you do?

Are you trying to say that the highlighted text answers the question? Get out of here! Nooooo, you don't say...

So I've been with a girl for about a year now, but just don't love her anymore. I still love my ex gf that I dated for a few years, and she won't be in my life while I'm still dating my current gf. (They know and hate each other) I dont know if I should break up with my girl and try to get back with my ex or just ride it out. I know I'll miss my current gf if we break up but I really want to be with my ex. I just don't know what to do.

 

[shaqdeezl]

Break up with the current gf and be alone. See how you feel after that.

I strongly believe you are comparing this new chick to the former chick and like the former one the best out of these two. In addition, I feel when you do go back to the old one things will not be the same and you will go through yet another - but much messier - break up. There is a reason you two broke up in the first place. Those issues have not gone away.

Go be alone for a few weeks...or a few months...and see what happens. You may end up finding the one that suits you best!

 

[Finisher]

There's a reason you're called "Ex". Find a new one......

 

[Chopper]

I think you should have them perform a BLOW OFF. 1st one to make you CUM you stay with or go back to!


No really, we aren't going to be able to answer this for you, too many factors involved. Shaq said it best i think. be alone for awhile and see what happens.

 

[A.k.]

well

I would make sure that you dont love the gal your with now, and do love the other one, some times ppl think they love a person because they cant have them this is not love but a wanting of what you cannot have. Best way to figure this out is to go single for a bit tell them both you need time to think(i know this sounds chicish but) its the best way to find out, ow after you are single for about 2-3 months see what one you miss the most and what one seems to hand in there the most, because what can happen is you will decide on one but she will decide on some one elce and there was not a connection there and so on. take a step back and figure it out on your own.

 

[Massive690]

Break up with the current gf and be alone. See how you feel after that.

I strongly believe you are comparing this new chick to the former chick and like the former one the best out of these two. In addition, I feel when you do go back to the old one things will not be the same and you will go through yet another - but much messier - break up. There is a reason you two broke up in the first place. Those issues have not gone away.

Go be alone for a few weeks...or a few months...and see what happens. You may end up finding the one that suits you best!

i agree. ive tried to get back with ex's before, and never will again. it feels good for a month, then the same shit you hated about eachother before starts to happen again. you broke up for a reason. and trust me- neither of you have "changed".

 

[micronian]

interesting food for thought, i am on the verge of seeing if my ex will take me back.. i dont know, perhaps my situation was different, like i broke it off with her, we were destined to break up because she was moving and we only dated while at a boarding school overseas... interestingly enough I ended up moving to the same part of canada that she moved to the year i broke up with her, not stalking lol parents brought me here to this part of the country few years ago, been seeing her lately, had some "make up sex" it was good, but my feelings are so f'in twisted, i miss her, like having her around and being with me spending time together, we dated 4 years ago for almost a full year, travelling europe together doing mini-trips and things on our own, it was great, we shared mostly good memories me and her and i want that again. I just don't know if she wants me back or would want to have me again after breaking her heart. oh and she was my first girl, so my feelings for her are still strong. i just dont know what to make of them, because im leaving for 3 months, coming back for 2 wks at xmas time, then taking off for 5 more months and getting stationed somewhere.. (cdn military)

it would seem too selfish of me to ask her to take me back, or would it not? i mean i loved this girl, and i still believe i do, after just spending a couple nights with her it brings back those good feelings again, can anyone relate???

< M >

 

[Massive690]

interesting food for thought, i am on the verge of seeing if my ex will take me back.. i dont know, perhaps my situation was different, like i broke it off with her, we were destined to break up because she was moving and we only dated while at a boarding school overseas... interestingly enough I ended up moving to the same part of canada that she moved to the year i broke up with her, not stalking lol parents brought me here to this part of the country few years ago, been seeing her lately, had some "make up sex" it was good, but my feelings are so f'in twisted, i miss her, like having her around and being with me spending time together, we dated 4 years ago for almost a full year, travelling europe together doing mini-trips and things on our own, it was great, we shared mostly good memories me and her and i want that again. I just don't know if she wants me back or would want to have me again after breaking her heart. oh and she was my first girl, so my feelings for her are still strong. i just dont know what to make of them, because im leaving for 3 months, coming back for 2 wks at xmas time, then taking off for 5 more months and getting stationed somewhere.. (cdn military)

it would seem too selfish of me to ask her to take me back, or would it not? i mean i loved this girl, and i still believe i do, after just spending a couple nights with her it brings back those good feelings again, can anyone relate???

< M >

not selfish at all. 5 months aint shit in the grand scheme of things. give it a shot bro, you really dont have anything to lose. just shoot from the heart and be honest. maybe it will work out and maybe it wont, but at least you'll know