Grizz hunny i only have 4 kids not 5!!! and 2 of the 4 live with their dad and I pay him child support..I am pretty self suffient to be honest with you...Maybe that is where I am going wrong..I'm not looking for someone to step in and take care of me!!! I can pay my bills and feed myself and my kids....
All i am looking for is someone to be an adult with and not have it be some random dude that i only see once, or only when it is convient for him...I'm not looking for a dude to put a damn ring on my finger shit NO WAY IN HELL i am going down that road again!!!
Wanna go to Lake Havasu(sp?) tomorrow? Gotta see if you can get a sitter and you'll get back to me? Oh, ok.
Seriously, I'm telling you right now, they're a greater "drawback" than you want to admit. YOU might love your kids, but, just as you hate the neighbors kids, that's how everyone feels about your kids. No shit.
If this guy has kids, then it's different-ish. But if he doesn't, then I'll tell you right now they'll be a problem for every 100% single guy you ever meet.
Ever read the threads on these boards from the pathetic faggots who think their girlfriend should have never had sex with anyone other than themselves? Yeah, you have 4 proofs of having sex with someoene else.
I don't know. On top of that, you were "knowing what you want" which, likely, translates into being a little to strong in the beginning. Personally, I like that kind of thing, but most people don't.
Just keep trying until you find someone who appreciates you for you. Fuck the rest of them!
